I recently read the book
Honey, I Wrecked The Kids by Alyson Schafer and thought it was a fantastic parenting book. The book has some useful strategies and ideas, one of which is the family meeting. We have been trying to have a family meeting for a few weeks now but every Sunday something has come up and we have not been able to have the meeting. Jeff and I decided that it might be better to have our meeting during the week instead, so last night was the night of the first meeting.
The first few family meetings are very simple and are meant to get the kids used to the idea. Our goals last night were to set positive expectations about the meetings, say one nice thing about each person and plan our "family fun" activity. We also had ice cream like my friend
Carrie does when her family meets.
The meeting was quick and everyone seemed keen to be part of it. For our temporary talking stick we used a red bike light and passed it around. The girls were great at waiting to have the talking stick before speaking. We bounced around ideas of what to do for our family fun activity and I wasn't the least bit surprised when
FunworX got the final vote. We have only been there twice but the girls loved it and always want to go back.
Our next meeting is set for next Wednesday. I think it is safe to say that we are all looking forward to it.
The start of the meeting. Lauchy is
wondering what is going on!


Lauchy kept putting up his hand and saying, "Turn, turn".
He got a turn with the talking stick too, although
he just put it into his mouth.